Sunday, 19 May 2019

10 Tips to Get Your Kids to Enjoy Homesteading

1. Find Their Thing

Here’s the thing, most kids today don’t get excited when you start talking about working outside, breaking a sweat, or building this type of life.
If they’re like my kids, they’ll farm on Minecraft, but they have no interest in doing it in real life. This is until you help introduce them to new things.
I found what my youngest loved to do on his video games, excited him in real life too. Therefore, he helps me start seeds, plant a garden, harvest the garden, and he loves playing with the baby animals.
Plus, as he’s growing older, we’re learning he may share his Dad’s enthusiasm for carpentry skills.
Our older two kids enjoy building items. The oldest likes for things to be organized and look good. He’s discovered building structures helps with his end goal.
While our middle child likes the idea of building structures or systems which help streamline the work.
It may take some time to figure out what your kids’ “thing” may be, but once you find it, this may be how you keep them motivated and involved in this dream.

2. Get Them Involved

via The Prairie Homestead
If you dream of having a homestead, you can’t do it alone. It’s possible to homestead as a single person, but only if you’re trying to raise food for only a single person.
When trying to raise enough crops and livestock to sustain a larger family, you must have all hands-on deck.
Make sure you aren’t working yourself into the ground and remember to include your kids. I made this mistake in the beginning.
My kids were not into the homesteading idea in the slightest. To avoid the fight, I’d try to do it all by myself.
This was a bad decision because I became burnt-out and my kids weren’t involved which meant they cared less and less about this dream.
I fixed this situation by assigning daily chores. If they expected to earn time on their video games, they were going to have to help us out first.
Make sure the chores are dealing with the parts of homesteading they enjoy. For instance, with my youngest, he had to help more with the crops while the older two helped with tidying things up or feeding animals.
When they have a stake in the dream, they suddenly begin to care a little more.

3. Don’t Make Drastic Changes

Homesteading is a gradual thing. If you make up your mind you’re going to homestead, sell off your larger house, move to an off-grid cabin in the woods, and dive in with both feet, your family is going to revolt.
They’re most likely used to having modern conveniences, living around people, and shopping at the grocery store.
You can’t take these things away from them in one clean swipe and expect a positive result. Make it a gradual thing.
In our case, we began by canning food. I didn’t grow it. I purchased produce in bulk while it was in season and asked for help when canning.
From there, we started raising a few chickens. Next, we added a small garden, and from there, we expanded to goats and other ideas.
We originally built a mini-homestead on less than two acres. When this dream had been fulfilled, we made the jump to a larger homestead on ten acres.
It lessened some of the work because the goats could be on pasture instead of being fed hay daily which seemed like a treat to the kids because it meant less work.
By taking baby steps, it didn’t feel as overwhelming and was easier for the kids to adjust to this new way of life.

4. Don’t Bash What They Love

My husband likes video games as much as the next person, but he doesn’t understand kids being sucked into them.
It was easy for him to grow frustrated when he’d ask the children to do something, and they were tuned into their phones or gaming systems instead of what he was saying.
Though this was an issue we had to address by setting ground rules as to how much electronics during the day was healthy, it was common for my husband to make remarks about their games.
I’m guilty of venting my frustrations as well over my kids’ addiction to electronics.
Yet, we learned over time that by making what they love our enemy, we were making ourselves the enemy to the kids because they felt we were attacking something they loved.
It may sound crazy, but it’s how they explained it to us.
Instead of venting our frustrations over the electronics, we began to use them to our advantage. Since we knew how much they loved them, the kids had to work to earn their time (as I mentioned briefly above.)
If your kids are sucked into sports, electronics, or anything else, use this to your advantage instead of disliking how much time they spend on their activities verses the homestead.
Explain to your children you need their help. If they’ll help you accomplish what needs to be done daily to provide for the family, you’ll reward them by giving them time towards the activities they love to do.
It’s a fair trade and one which can also teach your children work ethic, which is something they’ll need throughout their lives. 

5. Homesteading May Not Look Like You Thought

This may sound as though your kids are making all the sacrifice, but this isn’t true. You may have to change your dream to move forward with a happy family.
In mine and my husband’s case, we could easily move to a secluded area, totally off-grid, and be happy as clams for the rest of our days.
Our children don’t share the same mentality. They can get onboard with raising livestock, raising food, and canning food.
But they aren’t a fan of living off-grid because you must cut back on water and electricity consumption. This cuts into the long showers they enjoy, and the amount of equipment they can run for their video games.
I’ve had to accept the fact we may not end up off-grid until our children have left the house because it costs too much money to install solar panels with the amount of electricity we consume now.
My children know I’m giving up something I’d love to have because they enjoy electronics. I don’t make them feel guilt over it or act huffy.
They know because they were there when we looked into it, they heard the conversation between their dad and I trying to afford such a system, and they knew we decided to push it off until later in life.
My kids expressed their appreciation and know this whole dream is a matter of giving and taking. They understand we’re sacrificing things we want as well.
Be willing to change your dream to accommodate your children (within reason) if it means keeping the peace. You’ll be glad you did.
After all, children won’t be children forever. You should have time later in life to accomplish the dreams you’re putting on hold for the moment.

6. Educate Your Kids

My kids didn’t understand the drive for being self-sufficient in the beginning. It was up to my husband and I to educate them.
Kids only know what they’ve seen their whole life. If all they know is going to the grocery store for food, it may seem strange to grow their own food.
If they haven’t been exposed to livestock, it’s common for kids to be unsure of what you’re getting them into.
The best way my husband and I have found to educate our kids is to let them see the rewards. We’ve discussed how important it is to be prepared if we weren’t able to go to the grocery store or have other amenities we’re accustomed to.
At first, our children thought we were a little ‘out there,' but when the first hurricane, snow storm, or power outage came they were thankful we were covered.
We also explained to them how much money this could save us. When they were able to participate in more activities because we had extra money from raising our own crops to feed everyone, they understood how this lifestyle could benefit them in a variety of ways.

7. Make Life Fun

If homesteading is nothing but work to your kids, they’re going to hate it. Everyone needs fun in their life.
I didn’t realize this until we were approximately five years into this journey. We had worked ourselves to death, and my husband was ready for a break.
We started going on short vacations, and I realized how nice it was to breathe a little. A few years later, we purchased a boat.
Now, we go to the lake on some weekends to get a break. This has added fun to our family’s life and our kids don’t mind working if they know a break is around the corner.
But we’ve also found ways to make work fun on the homestead. We take time to smell the roses if you will.
During the day, we take walks, breathe in fresh air, and enjoy the beautiful scenery. We take the time to play with our livestock and enjoy the babies.
Plus, my kids enjoy getting to ride around in wheel barrels, on some of our farm vehicles, or playing in the barn.
If you make their childhood fun, they’ll embrace the learning experience.

8. Incorporate New Ideas with an Old-Fashioned Mentality

My kids are a ton better with technology than I’ll ever be. My eight-year-old is already learning how to code. It blows my mind!
Therefore, when I do something the ‘old way,’ he’ll look at me and say, “Don’t you know there’s a more efficient way?”
Instead of scoffing and doing it my way, I give him the room to manufacture new contraptions to make the same job a little easier.
This not only encourages his creative nature, but it saves me time and money many times too. He’s helped us manufacture a sliding coop door, developed new methods to feed and water animals, and has helped us design many of the structures around the homestead.
Let your kids’ creative minds run wild. You may be blown away as to how much they can add to your homestead and simplify things for you.

9. Support Their Efforts

As smart as my kids have been around the homestead, they aren’t perfect. They try to do certain chores, take on new tasks or projects, or try to build things which sometimes fail.
Letting your kids help can take more time. There’s no denying this fact, but instead of getting frustrated and taking the job back over, encourage your kids.
Come alongside them to help, offer suggestions, and congratulate them on their efforts. When people feel encouraged and appreciated, you’d be surprised how much this can boost morale.
There are times when children want to help but aren’t old enough or strong enough to get the job done. Don’t discourage their efforts.
Instead, encourage teamwork if you have multiple children. This is a great life lesson and one which still allows everyone to feel as though they played an equally important role in getting the job done.
Any way in which you can show your support towards your children when they’re making strides to get onboard with the homesteading dream, is a step in the right direction.

10. Your Dream May Not Be Their Dream

get your kids to enjoy homesteading
photo by homestead notes
I have three children. The oldest wants as far away from farm life as he can manage to get. He spent most of his younger years in the city, and he prefers it.
My middle son is our farmer. He enjoys gardening, loves goat kids, and we call him the ‘chicken whisperer’ because he has a way with them.
We aren’t quite sure what our youngest will do yet. He loves animals and is quite an inventor which could lead him in multiple directions.
Yet, I’m okay with realizing my dream may not be their dream. My goal is to make sure my children know how to survive in the event they must.
But I also want them to experience different aspects of life.  You can live in a city and still enjoy gardening, but you may have to go about it differently.
Or they could live on a farm and homestead on a smaller scale. It doesn’t matter how they choose to apply what they learn as long as they have the knowledge to take any approach they desire.
If your kids don’t seem to share the same dream you have, don’t take offense. Instead, teach them what you know.
Lessons around a homestead can be applied in many areas of life, and you may be surprised how they take what they know and turn it into their own dream.
There’s no magic potion for transforming your children into homesteaders. Some kids instantly love this life and other kids are less attracted to it.
But don’t let this stop you from pursuing your dream. There will be compromise, but this within itself is a great life lesson to teach your children. Don’t be discouraged if everyone isn’t quite as gung-ho as you are. Take it slow, and your family will figure out what homesteading looks like for them.

Saturday, 18 May 2019

14 Beautiful DIY She Shed Ideas That Everyone Can Build

1. A Cozy Space to Start Your Day

Every woman needs a cozy space to start her day. Whether you're a tea or coffee drinker, you must have a sacred place to soak in the morning (and absorb caffeine) before the hustle and bustle of the day begins.
Why not make a cozy front porch on your she-shed and use it as a space to caffeinate and breathe before the day truly begins? Remember, before you feed the chickens you must fuel up to take on the day ahead and do it in a beautiful space.

2. The Reading Shed

I love nothing more than to curl up with a good book on rainy days or after a long day of working on our homestead. Reading is a great way to relax and relaxing is important if you work hard for everything you have.
If you’d enjoy a welcoming space to take a break from the world around you by crawling into a good book, creating a reading shed to be your cozy space to go and relax.

3. The Backyard Escape

My doctor recently shared with me how many women are experiencing poor mental health (myself included) because we pour so much of ourselves into everything and everyone else, we forget about our goals, our dreams, and our well-being.
I've had to learn to say ‘no' some days and get away by myself to allow time to breathe and heal from the chaos of life. Make yourself a priority. Create a space where you can escape from the world even if you don't go any further than your backyard.

4. A Place to Process Life

she shed ideas for a relaxing cup of tea
My mother-in-law and I used to sit on my front porch, sip cold drinks, and take in the scenery. We'd jokingly call it a ‘hen party,' but those were some of the most comforting moments in my life.
If you have a friend, a mother, or a mother-in-law who helps you ‘do life,' invite them to your she shed front porch and process life together. Having a chat with someone close is some of the best therapy you can get, and it's free!

5. The She Shed Craft Retreat

Speaking of my mother-in-law, crafting was a way she'd give her mind rest while keeping her hands busy. She made many beautiful items.
If crafting is a way for you to find rest and relaxation, this is a wonderful she shed for you to create many masterpieces and find solace in the process.

6. The Vibrant Yoga Studio

she shed ideas for a yoga studio
Though you can't see all of the amazing colors this she shed offers at first glance, the various patterns and distinct color schemes are a magnificent way to lighten up your spirits.
If you're feeling run down on the inside, create this she shed and make it your new yoga studio. Bright colors, unique patterns, and soothing yoga are fantastic ways to make your soul feel vibrant again.

7. Cooking Up Some Comfort Farmhouse Style

Do you have specific foods which can instantly make you feel better after a long or stressful day? I have mine, but I don't like to share them with anyone else when I've had a tough day. Being honest, here.
If you'd enjoy a kitchen all to yourself to bake, make comfort foods, and breathe, this farmhouse she shed could be your perfect space.

8. The Shed and Body Makeover

she shed ideas for an old shed makeover
If you’re into the farmhouse style (which many are right now) consider taking an ordinary shed and giving it an upgrade. This could not only be good for your curb appeal but your physical health as well.
When I'm doing something to make my home look better, it can make me feel better. It also does the body good to be outside, moving around, and soaking up the fresh air. If you're up for a project around your house, this could be a good choice for more reasons than one.

9. The Stay-Cation Shed

My family and I went years without taking a vacation. We couldn't afford one, and it wore us down. You need a break sometimes from the daily grind.
If you have a hard time breaking away from your daily routine, create a space around your home where you can have a stay-cation. It's a place you can slip away to (if only for a night) to rest, relax, and have a slight change in scenery.

10. Your Meditation Space

she shed ideas for meditation
This shed is quite small, but how much space do you need to relax in total solitude? I've recently started meditating in an attempt to retrain my brain. Our brain is like the rest of our body; without proper training, it can go haywire.
Though this shed is smaller, you don't require much space to meditate. You need a comfortable place to sit and the ability to play your meditation podcasts or music. If you're trying to calm your anxiety and retrain your brain, consider investing in a space specifically meant for meditation.

11. Sweat in Peace

I'm telling on myself a little in this post. I let myself go for a long time and paid the price of becoming a train wreck both mentally and physically over the past few months. We can only push ourselves for a certain period of time before our bodies say, “No more!”
One thing my nutritionist has been pushing me towards is to exercise more. Though farming seems like quite a workout, you'd be surprised how our bodies adjust. It doesn't take much space to exercise and only about 20 minutes to break a solid sweat. Take the time to get your heart rate up every day and create a lovely workout studio to sweat in peace.

12. The Art Studio

she shed ideas for an art studio
Are you someone who enjoys art? I have a friend who has a passion for all things involving art, but lately, she has embraced pottery. There's something about molding the clay into a beautiful masterpiece which soothes her heart.
If you'd enjoy embracing your artistic side a little more, consider creating a she shed which could become your new art studio.

13. A Sewing She Shed Idea

Are you gifted with the needle? If you can sew a variety of clothing or decorative items, you've earned the right to have your own space to do it.
Not only does this give you time and a place to invest in a hobby you enjoy, but it also can save you a great deal of money on clothing and decor items.

14. The Photography Space

she shed ideas for a photography studio
I have friends who are amazing photographers. They're able to capture precious moments we'd otherwise miss because they have this special gift.
If you've been gifted with an eye for photography, consider creating a she shed where you can take gorgeous photos and perhaps start your own business.
You now have 14 beautiful she shed ideas on how you can transform a shed into a specific space meant to nourish your body, mind, heart, soul, and your hobbies.
Women tend to give a great deal of themselves to everything and everyone else without stopping to recharge their own batteries.
By creating a space all of your own, it makes it easier to go somewhere, lock the door behind you, and become intentional about investing in you! This will create balance in your life and will boost your health.

10 Tips to Get Your Kids to Enjoy Homesteading

1. Find Their Thing Here’s the thing, most kids today don’t get excited when you start talking about working outside, breaking a ...